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About Wayne Ross
About Wayne Ross
First of all I want to thank you for buying my manual. I think that the best way to start is to tell
you a little about myself and inform you why you should listen to me. After all you should have
faith and confidence in my methods. I want to make you a true ladies man, an envy of all
other guys who will beg you for your secrets of attracting women. This will happen to you if
you follow my advice.
Nearly a dozen years ago I was divorced, thrown into the singles world, and totally
unprepared for living the singles life. I was 30 years old at the time and had no idea on how to
meet and date beautiful girls. For nearly five years I visited singles bars nearly every week,
sometimes three and four times a week. I never met a girl in a bar. I tried, I really tried. I went
up to hundreds of girls during that time and was rejected by nearly all of them. A few would
dance with me but that’s about all. None would give me their phone number or want to date
me. I was completely unhappy and miserable and quite willing to admit defeat.
Someone told me about personal ads and how they helped him to meet women. I decided to
try too. I gave up the bar scene and devoted 100% to the personal ads. I met many girls
through the personals and even wrote two manuals about them. You may have one or both of
them. For five years I never went to a bar and stayed with personal ads.
But after a period of a time I missed the dancing and music of the bar scene. I knew that
many very good-looking girls went to the singles bars. I decided to try again, after all I met
many girls through personals and I should have more confidence that would help me in the
singles bars. I would try the following Friday night.
That Friday night I went to the Holiday Inn, a place I knew would be filled with sexy looking
girls. I was right! There were all kinds of pretty women all over the place. But a strange thing
took place. My feet froze to the floor. I could not gather enough courage to even approach
one girl. I was a complete washout in a bar. I stayed nearly all night, holding up the wall and
staring at all the beautiful women that were there. I went home completely miserable that
night.
I decided to try again the next night. This time I would ask some of the girls to dance, one or
two had to say yes. After a couple drinks I got a little braver and asked ten girls to dance that
night. Every one of them said no. I was shocked. I went into the rest room and looked into the
mirror. I saw a 42 year-old balding man with a pot belly. The women must have laughed at me
when I asked them to dance. I felt worse than I had ever felt in my entire life and went home
dejected and unhappy.
After a few days I stopped feeling sorry for myself and knew there had to be a way for
average looking guys to meet good looking girls in bars. I was determined to find out. I owed it
to myself and also to the many guys who wrote to me pleading to tell them how to meet the
beauties they saw weekly in the bars.
So, without making you wait any longer here’s it is. Also please note that I tend to write run-on
sentences…but it’s the information that counts!
Below you'll find all 3 books, my own confidential letters, the bonus reports, and my home
phone number.
Warmly,
Wayne Ross
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The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
• Method #2
• Method #3
• Method #4
• Method #5
The "Secret" To Meeting Beautiful Women
I spent the next nine months interviewing both men and women and how they met each other
in bars. I spent the first six months talking to guys and the most unusual methods they used to
meet girls in bars. I picked the guys who I saw week after week with the most beautiful girls.
They were very helpful, I merely told them I was writing a book and needed their help. I ended
up with about thirty different methods of meeting women.
I spent the following three months talking to girls and finding out which of the thirty methods
would work best in meeting them. You would be surprised at how many good looking girls will
talk to a guy when they think he is writing a book on how to meet them. The girls picked the
best five methods out of the thirty that would work with them. This is what I will tell you in this
manual, the very best five methods of meeting girls in the singles bars.
There are two secrets to meeting beautiful women and without them the best methods in the
world will not work. These are the right attitude and being unique in your approach. Being
unique may draw all kinds of girls to you but you must have the proper attitude to hold on to
them. These are so important I will cover them in detail right now.
ATTITUDE - This is the most important quality you can possess to be successful with women.
Nothing, and I mean nothing, can compare with a superior attitude. You can be the best
looking guy in the world, but without a good attitude very few women will end up in your arms.
Let me tell you how it helped me.
When I first got divorced twelve years ago, I was a complete washout with women for years.
As I told you I met many girls through personal ads but only learned how to keep them after
one of the girls I met told me the following:
"Wayne, you're a very nice guy but if you want to meet and hold a lot of women you have to
change your attitude. Women do not want a guy who is weak and unsure of himself. They
want someone who is strong and self-confident. Be a little hard to get, a little casual and sly
but also be tender and caring. Know you can do it and you will have hundreds of women."
Well, from that day on I decided to become an expert on meeting and dating women. I did and
you will benefit from my know how and experience because every method or system I learn
about meeting women I will pass on to my readers. I wrote two manuals on personal ads and
am an expert on meeting women through personals.
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When it came to singles bars I forgot my own advice and lost my good attitude and became a
washout with women again. But the combination of being unique and the right attitude helped
me to meet all kinds of girls in bars and it will help you. There is nothing that will stop you from
meeting girls if you are unique and have the right attitude.
UNIQUE - There is not one female in this world that wants a guy who is average. She is
always looking for a guy who is different, her knight in shining armor, her dream man, the man
who is unique. That is why these methods will work because they are different and very
unique. Any guy can walk up to 100 women and maybe 1 to 10 will show some interest. But I
want you to be successful with nearly 100% of women and you will nearly approach that when
you nave the right attitude and are unique in meeting women. From this day forward you will
eliminate the word average from your life and substitute the word unique. You will become a
real ladies man, a man who has dozens of women at his fingertips. You will never be lonely
again. You must attain the correct attitude and you will never be without women. No woman
seeks the common man. They seek the man who is different, the man who is unique. Every
one of these methods are unique and different. That is why they will work. Have faith in me
and these methods and you will succeed.
"The Singles Bars"
The singles bar seems to be the number one place that guys try to meet women. It is also the
hardest. With these methods I will make it so easy to meet girls in bars that you will wonder
why you ever had trouble before. You will be way ahead of the other guys because over 90%
of guys that frequent a bar are afraid to approach women for fear of getting rejected. There
are literally dozens of girls just waiting to meet guys in a bar, but as I said, he should be a guy
who is different and very unique and that will be you.
More women go to the singles bars than any other place to meet guys. They know no other
place to go. The pity of it is that so many men use or try to use the common old-fashioned
way of meeting women. Here are some of the methods that most men use to meet women in
bars and they definitely are the absolute worse ways to try to meet women.
An average guy walks into a bar, has a few drinks and will decide whether or not to approach
a girl he finds attractive. He will look around for someone he would like to meet. Here is where
most guys make their mistake. He will see a good looking girl, take a deep breath, cross his
fingers, walk up to her and spit out the most average comment that his mind can dream up.
This is the fault of most guys because of their attitude. Your attitude will change when I'm
through with you. A poor attitude and a "common" approach will turn off more girls than an
acute case of bad breath.
Here is a good example of a poor approach most guys use:
Upon spotting a good-looking girl alone in a bar, Mr. Average will stumble up to her and after
sitting nearby will blurt out, "Can I buy you a drink?" Sometimes he will ask if he can sit down
and rap with her. Other times he will act like James Bond, real suave, and send a drink by
way of the bartender with the message, "The gentleman at the end of the bar would like to
know if the lady would care to join him?" What bunch of hogwash.
All the examples above are all a bunch of bull. Why? Because all of them are very common
and are used by nearly every guy trying to meet girls. When a guy offers to buy a girl a drink
she is probably already drinking one. She probably thinks to herself "Here is some smart alec
guy who wants to buy me a drink for a couple of dollars because he doesn't have two cents
worth of guts." What he means is, "I'm looking for company and I'm willing to spend a couple
of bucks to see if you 're available; so why doesn't he say it?" Next, to ask if you can sit down
is an assumption that she is alone and will be for the rest of the night. This also puts her in a
very awkward position. She is almost forced to say yes.
She may not think these exact thoughts but she will feel like a pick up because you made her
feel that way. She will feel cheap because most women do not want to be made to feel like
they're waiting to be picked up by some guy. Your main mistake was not making her feel
SPECIAL .
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To send a message with a drink by way of the bartender is another poor method. If she
agrees, she is openly admitting she is looking for a partner. When one of you goes through
the motions of swapping tables you are making the entire place aware that you have just
picked her up. This has a tendency to make her feel somewhat cheap. She is also placing
herself in a very delicate situation. How is she going to escape from you if she does not like
you? You are making her feel obligated.
By now I think you are starting to see my point. In most cases of using the above common
methods the odds are that most girls would say, "No, thank You," This is her polite way of
saying, "Get lost." In these approaches you have done nothing different to set yourself apart
from all the other men in the bar. You have done nothing out of the ordinary and nothing
which a dozen other men would try to meet a girl. Remember what I said about being unique.
With the common methods, such as the above, her decision will be based on entirely what
you look like. Unless you look like a Greek God or a movie star you will have very little chance
of meeting girls in bars using the normal and common methods.
Ask yourself on what other point could she possibly make her decision. Now take a look in the
mirror. Can you make it on your looks alone? I can't. Therefore it's mandatory to rely on
something other than your looks in order to meet sexy women in the singles bars. You must
become appealing to her. You must reverse the normal procedure. By doing this you will be
able to select and attract the really beautiful girls and become truly appealing to them. This is
what these methods will do for you.
I want to pound this idea into your mind. To attract women you must reverse the original
situation. In the beginning you are attracted to her. You want to meet her. Your opening
maneuver should be to turn the tables so that now she is attracted to you, and wants to meet
you. This might seem difficult to you but it is very easy, You can accomplish this by arranging
her first thoughts of you to be, "He is UNIQUE, DIFFERENT, AND VERY INTERESTING ."
Once you have arranged this, she will be very pleased to meet you and get to know you. That
is what these methods will do for you.
Looks - Do They Matter To Women?
This is the most frequent question that guys really wonder about. Do you need to be tall, dark
and handsome to attract a beautiful girl? The answer may surprise you. But it's a definite no.
With a man a woman's looks are very important. A woman is more interested in what you're
like on the inside than on the outside. But if a woman has no idea about your character or
personality she will be apt to judge you on your looks. In a singles bar looks are extremely
important unless you can attract a woman on something else, That is what these methods are
designed to accomplish, attract women by being different and unique.
Let's not fool ourselves. If you happen to be good looking it will be to your advantage. Good
looks do attract a woman's attention. But women are more interested in what a man is like
and not really hung up on beautiful faces the way a man is. If you could gain a woman's
The Methods - Why T he y Work
With these methods it will matter very little what you look like because when you use any of
the methods you will come across to a woman as being unique, interesting, curious and
confident. You will be the kind of man any woman would want to meet and date. You will not
be common. You will be different. Almost every woman I talked to was only willing to settle for
the man she was presently dating because no other unique guy was around. It is so easy to
meet a lot of beautiful girls when you are able to be "different" than most guys. That is my job,
to make you completely different than most guys. Every time I write a new manual on meeting
women you will be the first to know. My goal is to make you and me the ladies men we were
meant to be. It is about time someone stood up for the average guy. Enough waiting. Let's get
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interest it matters very little what you look like and I'll tell you why in the next section.
on to the actual methods.
Method # One
This method is a favorite of mine. I use it every chance I get. I love the five words because
they immediately get a girl to wondering. The first thing to do is to pick out the girls you want
to meet. Here is what you do. You go into the bar and you sit down and survey the women in
the bar. After a little time you pick the girl or girls you would like to meet. When you are
certain about the girl you want to meet you are ready to make your move. Don't wait too long.
If you're like me, the longer you wait the more reasons you will convince yourself it's not a
The Five Words
You walk up to the girl you want to meet and you say, "May I Borrow a Pencil?" Usually every
girl has a pencil or a pen. If she does not or if she ignores you then ask the bartender for a
pencil. If the bartender does not have a pen or pencil, always have one on you and walk up to
some one and pretend you borrowed it. Your only intention is to get a pen or pencil with her
attention on it. Now go back to your table and don't pay the slightest attention to her. For the
moment she will be aware that you're in the room. You write a short note to her. (I assume
you can use a small piece of notebook paper or even a napkin. Carry one of those small
spiral notebooks around. This should become a habit, how are you going to write down all the
phone numbers of women you meet if you don't have some paper?) Write something like the
following:
"Did you know that I have been sitting here wondering how I could meet you?" If you have
any suggestions as to how I could meet you without appearing bold, or, if I should even try to
meet you, please check one of the below. Yes... No... Go to hell ... try this... Signed.............
You give her the note and the pen or pencil and let her decide what to do. Why will this work?
Because as I told you before, to meet a lot of women you must be unique and different and
not common.
You must admit that this is not a common method. She will be flattered that you went to so
much trouble just to try to meet her. You were humorous in your note and women love a guy
with a sense of humor. You gave her the chance of either to invite you to join her or to tell you
to go to hell. This is a choice every woman must have. You have not pushed yourself on her
and you have not put her in an awkward situation.
I predict that she will want to meet you because you are not common. If this is different than
anything you ever tried before change your attitude and from this day forward try all different
approaches to meeting women. You will be different from most men and this is what women
Case Histories
Jim - "I was willing to try anything when Wayne told me about his new discovery on meeting
women in bars. I had terrible luck in bars. I decided on the borrowing the pen method first. I
figured this was pretty easy, or so I thought. I went to the Ramada Inn one Friday looked
around and saw dozens of beautiful girls. I just sat there sipping a drink for nearly an hour
before I decided to try anything. I was scared. I finally said oh what the hell. I saw a sexy
looking girl sitting with her girl friend. I walked up to her and asked to borrow a pen. She
looked at me and said, "Why, what do I do now I wondered? I just muttered something about
writing a note. She gave me the pencil and I started back to my seat, looked back at her, and
bumped into some guy at the bar. Boy, everything was going wrong. I went back to my seat
and wrote the note.
It took me a few minutes to get the courage to bring it back to her table. After I brought it back
and gave it to her I didn't know whether to wait for her answer or go back to my table. I waited
and she gave me back the note. I went back to my table and looked at it. She marked yes.
She wanted to meet me. I went over and she invited me to sit down. We talked for a while and
she told me that was the most unusual way a guy ever tried to meet her. She couldn't pass up
a chance to meet someone with that much ingenuity. We had a good time and I got her phone
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