Guide to Gay Sex.pdf

Guide to Gay Sex

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Sex Technique - Gay Male

1 - Masturbation

2 - Techniques of Masturbation

3 - Techniques of Masturbation with Another

4 - Related Masturbation Techniques

5 - The History of Fellatio

6 - Basic Fellatio Techniques

7 - Fellatio Techniques to Explore

8 - Body Positions during Fellatio

9 - Anal Intercourse

10 - Anal Intercourse Techniques

11 - Anal Intercourse Fears of Being Entered

12 - Anal Intercourse Performance Fears

13 - Postillioning

14 - Fist Fucking

15 - Rimming

16 - Group Sex, S&M, and other scenes

MASTURBATION

This file is about ways of sexual pleasuring with yourself and with

others, that use the hands and penis. This is masturbation (jacking

off), always popular, and surprisingly varied in the world of nature

and humanity.

Captive apes and monkeys, as well as other animals, have been seen

fondling their penis with hand or foot (or even taken into the

mouth). In one study, young male chimpanzees were noticed handling

each other's penis. Other limbs can be used to, such as with free-

living spider monkeys and baboons, who use their tails. And

elephants sometimes employ their trunks.

A curious scientist watches a porcupine:

His excitement was evidenced by...holding a long stick in his fore

paws and straddling it as a child does a broom-stick. The stick was

held so that his genitals were stimulated by the contact, and the

wood soon accumulated odor from the urine and glandular secretions

absorbed. In consequence, it was a natural source of sexual

stimulation.

Dolphins can be seen rubbing their erect penis against the tank

floor, and one individual had the habit of holding his in the jet of

the water intake. In addition, larger males will attempt

masturbation against the flanks of smaller ones. Perhaps the most

unusual way of masturbating is found among red deer:

This act is accomplished by lowering the head and gently drawing the

tips (of the antlers) to and fro through the herbage. Erection and

extrusion of the penis from the sheath follows in five to seven

seconds...Ejaculation follows about five seconds after.

Masturbation has always been common among humans. In some ancient

western cultures, it was connected with religious worship. For

example, in Egyptian mythology the god Orisis "creates all living

creatures by an infinite act of masturbation." This was also seen as

the source of the Nile river, and the cause of its annual flooding,

which was the backbone of life in Egypt. The ritual developed of

pharaohs masturbating before the god's image a the time of their

enthronement. This led to public masturbation during religious

worship, "to expel evil and honor the gods of generation," and

became a part of an ancient Egyptian, and also Phoenician,

Babylonian and Assyrian, sacred ceremonies. Masturbation was also

don for its own sake, without any sacred meanings; the Bible gives

us several instances of this )the "spilling of seed").

The Greeks and Romans thought masturbation was invented by the god

Hermes (Mercury in Latin). The Greeks called it thrypsis, "the

rubbing," and in Latin it was masturatus. People doubtless

masturbated together at times, as well as doing it by themselves, in

these ancient cultures, even though we have no records of this. The

ancients were generally very relaxed about male sexual _expression.

However jacking-off was later frowned upon thoroughly by the

Christian Church.

In the middle and far east, attitudes toward jacking-off have not

changed from ancient times. In most eastern cultured, Arabian,

Indian, Chinese, and Japanese, masturbation was allowed at an early

age, and at times even encouraged. For example, Ibn Kemal Pasha, in

On the Lengthening and Thickening of the Rod quotes old Arabian

doctors in saying that "rubbing and constant handling both make the

virile member longer and thicker." Masturbation was sometimes used

on babies to quiet their crying and Bernard Stern noted that in

Arabia it (jacking-off) "has become almost the custom of the land."

Two scholars noted that Muslim and Jewish boys who actively and

exclusively engaged in solitary and/or mutual masturbation, did so

on the average of three to five times per week during the ages of

eleven and eighteen.

In Arabian slang the act was known as jeng, jelq, jerk, and

mushtzeni, jerking, flipping, juggling and fist-beating

respectively, referring to the different techniques. In Turkey it

was called istimney-bilyet ("the practice of self-control of the

stalk"), while in Persia it was called maulish-e-zubb ("shampooing

the cord"). Masturbation was especially popular in public baths,

where you and/or a friend, or a masseur and/or a prostitute, could

engage you in the practice, "Mutual or one-sided, as desired." Some

ribald poetry survives, such as two lines from "The Fabulous Feats

of the Futtering Freebooters:" "Felah and Negro did jerk off his

yard/For all of a week; hashish kept it up hard." And from the

Persian poet Abu Nuwas:

. Are not this child's eyes all fire?

. O Desire,

. Feel the flush of the eggs

. Between his legs!

. Dearest, seize what you can seize,

. If you please;

. Fill your boyish fist with me

. And then see

. Will it go a little way,

. Just in play?

In India, masturbation has a long history, going back to ancient

Hindu mythology, In one story, Lord Shiva was "masturbated by Agnee

the Fire-lord who, bearing his precious semen across the Ganges,

accidentally dropped it and witnessed the miraculous birth of

Kartikeh (or Koomareh) the misogynist war-god." Krishna, as god of

Self-Contemplation, became the symbol of jacking-off and "the

favorite Hindoo youth. His practice, hautrus (manual orgasm)...was

deified as ritualistic." It was also called panimathana ("hand

churning") and "was relished extensively."

In China, Dr. Jacobus reports, young men would get together to smoke

opium, and then "abuse their generative organs for hours at a time

in a frenzy of mutual masturbation and anal copulation." Along the

same lines, one report explains that the Cossacks, who lived on the

middle Asian plains were more excited by self and mutual

masturbation than in sex with women, "having from infancy identified

sexual pleasure with masturbation alone."

Among other cultures, masturbation was often allowed or encouraged.

Of special of interest are cultures allowing the act to be shared

between males. These include the Hopi in Arizona, Wogeno in Oceania,

and Dahomeans and Namu of Africa. In certain Melanesian communities

this was expected between boys, and between boys and married men,

although no other king of gay male sex was allowed. In the Cubeo

tribe of the Amazon mutual masturbation was "semiPublic." Among the

Tikopia of the South Pacific, men masturbated themselves as other

men watched.

TECHNIQUES OF MASTURBATION BY YOURSELF

Masturbation is a joy. I am thoroughly convinced that God gave

people hands with fingers so that we could stroke ourselves in

pleasure and comfort. Those men who've not discovered the

satisfaction of jacking off, are definitely missing something.

There is only one problem I can think of in masturbating, that

someone would thing it was a bad thing to do, would feel guilty

during and after, or worse yet wouldn't do it altogether. The

suppression of pleasurable masturbation is one of the great ills of

our society, for masturbation is one of the basic functions of

existence; those who deny or ignore it do so at the risk of

increasing their own sense of frustration and grimness in the world.

Jacking off, besides feeling good serves many useful purposes. It

can be relaxing, reassuring, energizing, encouraging, spontaneous

and charming. You can do it quick, slow, with hands, pillows, melons

and showers, in a bathroom, behind a bush or on the bus, dry or with

oils, while listening to music, looking at pictures, or imagining.

It is an anywhere, anytime convenience. And don't be afraid to

indulge. When your body's had enough, it'll say so.

One main trouble in masturbating is to not be embarrassed. You could

get caught! The best ways to overcome this inconvenience are to make

sure you'll have privacy, learn to do it quick, and/or learn to do

it in public without being found out. All of these are quite

possible.

I remember once I was at a picnic, and I was standing in a crowd. It

was so hot that many people had taken off their shoes and shirts.

Then I saw across from me such a beautiful boy that I almost had to

leave, I got so excited. Luckily, I was wearing my old baggy navy

pants, and the pockets were worn through. I slung my coat over my

right shoulder to hide my arm, and plunged my hand down my pocket,

walking into the crowd as close as I could get. I had a great time,

and I'm sure that not one of the hundreds of people around me

guessed a thing about it! (Note: for tricks of this sort, wear tight-

fitting underpants to catch the come, or learn to hold your

ejaculation inside when you come, so you don't make a sticky mess.)

Mechanically speaking, masturbation for males is friction against

the fraenum, or "whang-string," a small, string-like portion of the

penis just under the glans or "head" at the backside. The fraenum

has the highest concentration of sexsensual nerve endings in the

body. Many actions can stimulate this area; an object can rub

against the penis, the penis can move against something, or no

motion can happen at all. This last might easily happen, since

fantasy and mind stimulation play such a big role; wet dreams are a

good example of this. I have a friend who sometimes comes to orgasm

while meditating, after his yoga practice.

Although I'll restrict myself here to "jacking-off", using the hand,

be aware that with a little imagination and creativity other ways

can be found. There are many things you can discover about yourself

with your hands. The hands are very sensitive to touch, and the

penis is even more so.

Every person develops their own way of jacking off. If you've ever

had others do it to you, you discover that usually they can't make

the feelings quite as good as you can yourself. That's because

they're probably using their style on you, which fits for them but

isn't yours. Style involves such things as how the fingers hold the

penis which fingers are used, how tight they are, how hard they

press, how much movement, use of the foreskin and how much

sensitivity towards drawing out the feelings. All these are

important.

Some people like to wrap the whole hand around their penis and slide

it all the way up and down in long, luxurious strokes, using oils or

a flexible foreskin, Others like to place the thumb and two fingers

around the corona (that part of the penis just below the glans),

with one finger over the fraenum, and pump in short, quick movements

with the skin.

There is room for exploration and creativity in masturbation.

Fantasy plays a big part, and in your mind you can be loving someone

else or yourself. You can imagine your last sexual act, or an erotic

fantasy, or looking at pictures or a story. Fantasies are especially

intriguing; they are the images and events of your inner and secret

wishes. Even if they seem strange or something you wouldn't want

anyone to find out about that's OK who's going to know if you don't

tell?

Loving yourself through masturbation means caressing your own body,

holding it, making love to you, appreciating you/your experience as

hand and penis, body and mind. it's unique.

A MASTURBATION FANTASY

Let me take you on a fantasy; You'll need privacy and quiet, some

enjoyable music (something warm and not too loud), candles and oil

(olive oil, safflower oil, massage or love oil, baby/mineral oil,

Vaseline, KY or any clean lubricating substance are all good). It's

night time outside. First, light clothes and, lying down on the bed,

close your eyes. Take a deep, relaxing breath. Imagine that you are

a stranger meeting your body, that it's new to you, that you're

touching it for the first time. Start at the top of your head, and

explore yourself with your hands, as sensations you've never felt

before. Feel your hair, the shape of your head, then your face, your

ears. Glide your fingers over each part, trying to feel the shape,

the texture, as if you'd never felt them before. Notice the softness

of you eyelids, the sensitivity of your lips. Then caress your

throat, your shoulders and chest. Find a nipple, and flick a

fingertip over and around it, feeling it grow hard and excited.

Glide your palms over your stomach, pressing down on your soft

middle. Trace designs around your nave. Slowly let your hands press

lower. Discover how your pubic hair begins; how does it feel: Seek

out the lines where you legs join your stomach. Trace the line with

your fingertip down onto the groove between leg and crotch, until

you brush your testicles. Press your soft warm hands onto the

insides of your thighs. Stroke your thighs, feeling their

sensitivity, their shape, their thickness. Brush the hair lightly.

Then discover ho your ass ends underneath. then glide up under your

testicles, tracing a ring around them. Hold them warmly in your

hand, feeling each, then press them gently against your body. Now

discover the shape of your penis with one fingertip. Trace a line

around the base, then up the side to the top. Lightly brush the

side, the fraenum, the glans and tip. Wrap one hand carefully around

the whole penis, and squeeze gently. Pull on it a little, then let

it go. Find the fraenum with your fingertip, and press there (You

may have to pull down your foreskin). Discover the most sensitive

point, and brush your fingertip rapidly just over that point. Press

you finger there again and massage the point gently and firmly. Then

wrap your hand around your penis and move it up and down.

Now put some oil in the cup of your hand, and caress your penis all

over, rubbing and massaging the oil evenly. Cradle your testicles in

one hand, and wrap the other around your penis. Slide you hand up

and down all the way, feeling the sensations. Explore until you

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