Trigger_Banter_Guide.pdf

Alpha Male Planner Presents . . .

A Man's Guide To

Better Banter

(A.K.A. "Flirting Deconstructed")

$97

CONTENTS

Introduction

A. What Is Banter?

B. Your Banter Journal

C. The Four Elements Of Winning Banter

D. Putting It All Together – Strategies For developing

winning banter

E. How you will build your repertoire over time

F. From Passive To Active -- "Setting Up" Your

Trigger Banter

G. Where to go from here

Introduction

$97 for 17 pages? Yes. We're not going to waste your time. We could have bloated this eBook into

200 pages, but we didn't. We simply packed it with the latest, cutting edge information on flirting and

bantering in existence.

If you actually do the exercises in the book, and practice out in the world, and you don't see dramatic

improvement in your ability to flirt . . . just ask, and we will give a full refund.

The guide is broken into several parts:

 What is Banter

 Your Banter Journal

 The Four Elements Of Winning Banter

 Putting It All Together – Strategies For developing winning banter

 From Passive To Active -- Setting Up Your Trigger Banter

 How you will build your repertoire over time

 Where to go from here

You can most likely READ it in one sitting. But you should spend many hours doing the exercises. So,

let's get started.

A. What Is Banter?

Banter is play. It's fun. And if you can do it well, it displays a lot of qualities that women find

attractive.

Here's an example:

Banter Example: Suppose a woman catches you looking at her, and she asks you:

" Were you just checking me out? "

You could say: " Yes, I was. But you were so eager for my opinion I didn't get a chance

to give you a rating."

[you can add . . . "I've got you pegged for at least a '5'. If you want higher, you're going

to have to give me more time. "]

This is effective banter. She's asking if you're checking her out -- as if she's caught you doing

something wrong. She might be flirting herself, but her choice of frame puts her in control.

But then, with a line of banter, you reframe the situation. Now you're talking as if the reason she's

asking if you're checking her out is because she's eager to know what you think of her . This puts you

back in control, and establishes your skill as a verbal swordsman. You've won the frame game.

Say this with a smile, and she might just play in your interpretive sandbox for a while. She might beg

for a higher rating and ask you to check her out some more. You can play with the numbers all night

long at that point.

Banter has the appearance of being "spontaneous". That makes banter different from other material you

might use to atttract women.

For instance, stories and routine stacks are often used as "active material". You go into a situation

planning to use active material.

With good banter, you wait for situations to arise, and you always seem to have the right response for

the right situation.

Good banter seems to come mysteriously off the top of your head. That's why your ability to banter

well can tell a woman a lot about you. It says that you're intelligent, socially aware, and fun.

Most men believe that you're either the kind of guy who can think of great responses off the top of your

head -- or you're not. And, if you're not, there's not really much you can do about it. This view is

mistaken. Almost any man can become a better banterer.

It helps if you understand the hidden structure of banter. And it helps to be organized and patient as you

build up your repertoire.

But it doesn't really take that long. You should become a much better banterer just by working through

this guide. And, if you are organized and persistent, you will become a master-banterer in just a few

months.

Here's the key. You need to have dozens of "spontaneous" responses ready to go. And you need to let

situations trigger your banter as they arise.

Yes, the key to being spontaneous is to plan. But you'll be amazed at how easy it is to have pre-planned

responses to the most common situations that arise in flirting contexts.

Don't feel like you have to be able to handle every situation immediately. You will build up your

repertoire over time, and you'll fill in more and more gaps as you go.

And, once you're prepared with a lot of good responses, and you start to really internalize the structure

and role of good banter, and you get experience with how women respond, you'll find you start coming

up with good banter on the fly as well.

So, let's get started.

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